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The concept of home extends far beyond a physical space; it embodies a profound sense of belonging, love, and shared experiences. For many, including myself, USY (United Synagogue Youth) has been that sanctuary for over four decades. My journey with USY began long before I officially became a member, rooted in childhood experiences shaped by the guidance of older teens.
Growing up as Stacy Sherman in Southern California, my first exposure to USY came through my mother, who was actively involved as a Youth Advisor at our local temple. The teenagers I admired became my role models, and I was captivated by the vibrant energy of their gatherings, conventions, and events. They represented everything I aspired to be, and I eagerly awaited my turn to participate in Kadima, the precursor to USY.
Becoming a leader
Entering the fourth grade brought a palpable excitement about joining Kadima. However, I wanted more than just to participate; I aspired to take on a leadership role. By sixth grade, I took the initiative to propose the creation of a board position specifically for Kadima members. This role would empower younger members and encourage their future involvement in USY. Presenting my motion to the chapter board felt monumental, and when they approved it, I became the first Kadima President at Temple Beth Emet in Anaheim, California. I felt an immense sense of pride, knowing I was contributing to a legacy of leadership.
Transitioning to USY
The transition into United Synagogue Youth (USY) marked a pivotal moment in my family’s life. We moved from our small synagogue in Anaheim to Congregation B’nai Israel in Tustin, California. This shift introduced us to new faces and experiences, yet my sense of belonging was firmly rooted in the love and support of my USY family. The feeling of home, characterized by connection and community, remained strong despite the changes around me.
During my time in USY, I took on various leadership roles, including chapter SATO Vice President and Executive Vice President. My impact extended beyond the chapter level; I also engaged with the leadership of the Far West Region and contributed to international boards. Participating in programs and events, such as two trips on the Far West on Wheels and a pilgrimage to Poland and Israel, provided me with invaluable leadership skills that have shaped my professional life for over two decades.
Finding solace in USY
Throughout formative years, many individuals grapple with discomfort in their own skin, often exacerbated by the challenges of traditional schooling. In contrast, USY offers a nurturing environment where members feel accepted and valued. During difficult times, USY serves as a refuge. It is not just a group or organization; it is a lifeline that helps navigate the complexities of adolescence. The question arises: how might life look without the support of such a community?
Returning as an advisor
After graduating from high school, the transition from participant to advisor within USY marked a significant turning point. College studies in sociology and psychology were deeply influenced by experiences in SATO, which emphasized social action and community service. Various roles, including USY chapter advisor and youth director, have provided opportunities to make a meaningful impact on the lives of young members.
When my family relocated to a different state, I felt a significant distance from the USY community that had played a crucial role in my identity. This separation created a noticeable void in my life.
Reconnecting with USY
Fortunately, I had the chance to engage with USY on a national level, and I embraced it wholeheartedly. Starting over can be intimidating, but the familiar warmth and camaraderie of USY quickly reassured me. At my first regional event, it felt as if I had never been away. The spirit of USY welcomed me back, rekindling my sense of belonging.
The timeless spirit of USY
In a hotel banquet room, I found myself surrounded by the joyful singing of a new generation of teens. This vibrant energy instantly transported me back to my own youthful experiences. The echoes of laughter and a strong sense of community reignited memories of my journey. It was clear that while the faces change, the spirit of USY remains timeless.
As the organization evolves—regions transform into communities and titles shift—the heart of USY continues to resonate with the same love and connection that has always defined it. USY is not just a place; it embodies a feeling, a home where memories are created and relationships flourish.
The essence of home lies not in a specific location but in the connections we forge and the love we share. USY will always be my sanctuary, a place where I belong, surrounded by those who appreciate the power of community.