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28 August 2026

Airplane etiquette survey reveals Americans’ biggest in-flight pet peeves

Discover what Americans find most annoying about airplane etiquette, from loud conversations to reclining seats, in this revealing survey.

Airplane etiquette survey reveals Americans' biggest in-flight pet peeves

Air travel has become a hotbed for debates on etiquette, with many Americans believing that passenger behavior is deteriorating. A recent survey commissioned by The Points Guy (TPG) and conducted by YouGov sheds light on the most frustrating in-flight behaviors and the evolving norms of airplane etiquette.

The survey polled over 2,500 U.S. adults, revealing that 42% believe airplane etiquette has worsened over the past five years. Interestingly, most travelers (52%) blame their fellow passengers rather than the airlines for this decline in civility.

Noise emerges as the top in-flight annoyance

The survey found that noise is the primary irritant for many travelers. A significant 27% of respondents cited loud conversations and passengers playing music or videos without headphones as the most annoying behavior. This issue has become more prevalent with the rise of social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram Reels, where users often watch content without headphones.

Following noise, 21% of respondents found passengers reclining their seats too far back or without warning to be the most bothersome behavior. Additionally, 8% were annoyed by passengers taking off their shoes or going barefoot, while 12% reported no major annoyances at all.

When it comes to phone or video calls, opinions were divided. 40% of respondents believed airlines should ban such calls during flights, while 33% thought a ban was unnecessary.

The great reclining debate: to recline or not to recline

The eternal debate over reclining seats continues to divide travelers. The survey revealed that a slim majority (51%) believe it is acceptable to recline your seat in economy only if you check behind you first. Meanwhile, 21% think it’s fine to recline anytime after takeoff, and 10% oppose reclining altogether.

The survey also touched on the contentious issue of armrests. Contrary to popular belief, only 11% of respondents agreed that the middle-seat passenger should automatically get both armrests. Instead, 31% favored equal sharing among all passengers in the row, and 26% were unsure of the proper etiquette.

Deplaning order and seat swaps: what’s the proper etiquette?

When it comes to exiting the airplane, nearly two-thirds (65%) of respondents believe that leaving row by row from front to back is the proper way to deplane. Only 10% supported moving ahead whenever space opens.

Seat-swap requests after boarding were viewed as acceptable by 44% of respondents, while 34% considered them rude. Interestingly, 51% believed that the window-seat passenger should control the window shade, although 28% thought the row should decide together.

The survey also explored attitudes towards attire on flights. Only 1% of respondents found wearing pajamas to fly acceptable, while 38% believed that whatever is comfortable is appropriate. Additionally, 8% were annoyed by passengers going barefoot.

Simple improvements such as using headphones, confirming before reclining, and waiting turns to exit could significantly enhance the in-flight experience for everyone.

Author

Sophie Donovan

Sophie Donovan, Manchester-born and classically elegant, once turned down a commission to chase a long-form piece on Salford’s textile heritage, filing instead from the mill where her grandmother worked. Advocates patient, context-rich features and brings a taste for quiet narrative detail and theatre aficionadoship.